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This is an article to discuss how
a woman can stay unique in a relationship with her partner.
Without much ado let us kickstart
the topic, to show you some vital tips every God-fearing and loving wife or
sister should exhibit to make her relationship a unique and exemplary one;
The majority of people in a relationship
believe that relationships are hard to handle. But the reason is it's the
people in the relationship that make it hard for themselves when they don't
have a common goal for the relationship.
Lots of people think that a relationship
works like magic; that is once two people agree to be in a relationship it
should automatically start working like a well-oiled machine void of stress.
But in a real sense, it doesn't work that way.
To stay unique in a relationship takes effort and it can be healthy and enjoyable if you know what to do. Truly no relationship is a bed of roses like we all fantasize it to be. But we can bring fantasy to real life only if we know how to go about it.
Here are some relationship tips for women, you can practice making your dreams come to real life.
1. Knowledge Of The Originator Of Relationships.
You cannot operate a gadget without going
through the manual. The same thing happens in a relationship. You cannot claim
you are in a relationship when you know nothing about the one who brought the relationship
into existence. What I mean here is the founder, the one who designed marriage
to be.
That person is God. The success
of a relationship is 50%. When you acknowledge the one (God) that brought the relationship
into your life, you can make that happen by acknowledging him as your personal
Lord and savior.
Genesis 1:27 say, so God
created man in his image. “In the image of God created he male and female,
created he them”. And a relationship needs a mature male (man) and a mature
female(woman) to be called a marital relationship or marriage.
This is the more reason why you should
run to Him in these three ABC steps. We will talk about the various
levels of maturity in one of our subsequent posts on relationships.
This is how you should apply
the ABC steps.
· A; accept you are a sinner.
· B; believe
that he can make you pure within and without
· C; confess your sins to him and promise
never to go back to them again.
Having taken these three steps by
faith, you've acknowledged God as your personal lord and savior. Then he can
help you to fulfill the remaining steps.
2. Own Up Your Life.
You may be over each other, but don't let it stop your life from moving on. Don't give up your dreams for him. But knowing him should be one of the reasons your dreams come true.
Those careers and skills you've acquired, don't throw them in the trash because you met him. Be yourself, touch lives, discover yourself, and impact the world around you, and into your generation.
Do the things you love doing that make you happy. You are unique and designed to bring uniqueness into your relationship too.
Your uniqueness is part of your beauty as a woman. Don't lose your unique self because you met a man. Don't dispose of that manuscript trying to force or copy someone else's relationship strategy just in the name of you met a man.
Also, Read 17 Unique Attitudes For A Healthy Christian Marriage.
3. Don't Be A Demanding Woman.
· Don't always be at the neck of your spouse
demanding this or that from him. It's suffocating for men. You have been
meeting your needs before you met him. Don't seize that opportunity of having
him in your life and turn him into your ATM.
That’s an awful attitude to
portray as a believer. This behavior won’t make your relationship healthy or
unique in any way. That’s why you are a child of God; the originator of
marriage. Let him guide and lead you, learn his ways. The Bible says, “As
many that are led by the spirit of God, are the sons of God” – Rom. 8:14
Such behavior pushes him away from you. No man wants a liability for a spouse.
Allow the giving to flow genuinely from his heart. And if feel You cannot stay without always demanding. Why not get a job?
4. Be Mutual With Him.
The feeling for each other should
be the same.
· Your attitude and feeling for each other should
be accepting, agreement, and one, you two have to agree on anything if it has
to be, that means there is unity of belief and understanding between you. The
Bible says, “can two walk together except they be agreed” – Amos 3:3
A relationship won't survive without a ceiling,
or when the ceiling is one-sided. As a woman make your relationship with your
partner a unique one. Unique because God is in control, and also among others
it proves outstanding.
You, therefore, shouldn’t have a
contrary opinion or argue with him, strive to always find a meeting point with
each other, relationships aren’t easy especially since you two come from a different
setting.
But remember you are the weaker
vessel. One of the greatest kingdom strategies is prayer. Instead
of arguing with your partner, go to the originator and present your petition to
him.
The heart of every king is in the
Lord’s and whichever way he wills he turns it. Recall the account of Esther in
the Bible. The scripture is for our learning. it endues us with the creative mind of Christ to help us find solutions in troubled moments of life.
Conclusion
This is an article on how a woman
trusting in the lord’s inspiration and leading makes her marriage a unique and
outstanding one. These tips will also serve those who are believing God to
settle down maritally.
The reason is simple; any attitude you cannot forfeit as a single will go into marriage with you. Also, remember that marriage is a lifelong adventure, so what you learn and know before marriage will help you to build a unique, healthy, and lifelong relationship.
This mindset can be trans-generational
because your parenting style will impact it on your children, and also the
children will observe and learn how the two of you relate in love.
The summary is; that God originated it, so he has the unique prescription to help you keep it. Many marriages have failed, and a lot are on the verge of failure because God was not involved, or carnality took the place of God, in the first place. Remember, “For to be carnally minded is death: to be spiritually minded is life and peace” – Rom. 8:6. That explains it all.
Related: Christian Living: How To Create A Peaceful And Healthy Family Life
PRAYER
FATHER, IJN: Thank you for
the revelation of your word. Worship And glorify him.
FATHER, IJN: I ask for
wisdom that is from above in my marriage, and relationships.
FATHER, IJN: I resist the
spirit of pride, and self-knowledge in our dealings with each other in our marriage.
FATHER, IJN: Holy Spirit
leads me and my spouse at all times, teach, and guide us on the way to go.
COMMIT TO MEMORY
“He who finds a wife finds a good
thing and obtains favor from the Lord”. - Proverbs 18:22
FURTHER READING
Prov. 21:9, 1Pet.3:5-6, 2Cor.6:14,
1Cor.13:4-7
QUOTE
“A good woman is one who loves
passionately, has guts, seriousness and passionate convictions, takes
responsibility, and shapes society.” – Betty Friedan
ASSIGNMENT
God is the originator ensure always
following His prompting. Allow the word to have its course in your marriage by continually searching out the mind of God in the scripture, this cannot fail. (see
Isaiah 34: 16)
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